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Defence Member and Family Support

For ADF members and their families

1800 624 608

Products, programs & resources for kids

A range of programs and resources are available to help children to develop strategies to cope with the challenges of Defence life such as deployment, absence and relocation, and use them to learn and grow.

Specialist in-school and advisory staff support Defence students as part of our education support package for mobile families.

Contact the all-hours Defence Member and Family Helpline at or 1800 624 608 to order these resources or to contact our specialist education support staff.

For kids


TeenSMART workshops are for Defence teenagers to help them manage issues arising from deployment and relocation.

During the workshops, Defence teenagers can meet and share their stories about being part of a military family. They can also learn some ideas and tactics to help them stay connected to their parents while they are away on deployment, and meet new friends when they move to a new posting location.

The workshop will also cover other things, like managing change and coping when feeling stressed out. There will be some tips and hints for handling emotions, and some great relaxation techniques, too.

Contact the Defence Member and Family Helpline at or  1800 624 608 for more information or to sign up for a program.


KidSMART are a set of four-week programs for primary aged kids to help them manage issues arising from posting, relocation and deployment. The KidSMART mascots, Tyler Turtle and Sam Super, will help kids learn how to manage change, stay connected with friends and meet new people.

The workshops will also cover other things, like helping children to cope when feeling stressed or anxious, particularly during times of parental absence and deployment. Kids can learn some techniques for handing emotions and relaxation, too.

Sessions are once a week for 1 to 1.5 hours per session and all children receive a story book to take home.

Contact the Defence Member and Family Helpline at or 1800 624 608 for more information or to sign up for a program.


DMFS produces teddy bears in the uniforms of the three Services. The bears are given to the young children of ADF members who have deployed. Bears can be ordered from the Defence Member and Family Helpline at or are available in DMFS Area Offices.


We have a range of children’s books, including the Sapper Pat, Pepper Penguin and Tyler Turtle series, which are designed to help young children understand more about the military lifestyle and develop coping strategies for parental absence.

Children can follow the adventures of teddy bear Sapper Pat in his overseas Army postings, and cuddly penguin Able Seaman Pepper Penguin as he travels the world on Navy ships. The books give young children an easy-to-understand picture of life in the military, and what their parent might be experiencing while they are away from the family on deployments or postings. Pat and Pepper also show children ways to stay in touch, and positive ways to manage time apart and reunions. 

The Tyler Turtle picture book and workbooks are designed for younger children, and follow the colourful Tyler as he learns simple strategies to help him cope with his mother’s absence and return and with relocating to a new reef.


Lecturer and researcher in early childhood education at the University of New England, Dr Marg Rogers, has developed two e-books for young children when their parents are absent from home. Anthony’s story, Now that I am big talks about the different things his parent does when they’re away from home, how much he misses them, and the things he can do to help while they’re away. Waiting for Daddy , Rose’s story features two year old Rose and the things she thinks and does while waiting for her Daddy to return home.

ADF Cadets and Defence Scouts

The ADF Cadets is a community-based youth development organisation, which runs leadership, team-building and survival skills programs. Cadets have Navy, Army, Air Force and tri-Service units, and can be a great opportunity for young people to meet others from Defence families. There are hundreds of units across Australia, so belonging to Cadets can also give youths familiar routine and a continuity of experience in new locations.

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Scouts Australia provides young Australians aged 6 to 25 with fun and challenging opportunities to grow through adventure. Scouts Australia provides special support to Defence students in new posting locations to help them engage with and settle into their new community.

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Parents & families

Resources are available for parents with information and advice for guiding children through deployments and relocations, from very young children to teenagers.

Parental absence and relocations

The Absence from home support booklet contains sections for families with children.

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Community activities

There are often local events held for Defence families, such as regional welcome days, craft sessions, picnics or seasonal activities like Easter egg hunts. These events are an opportunity for Defence children to meet kids in the same situation as themselves, have a lot of fun and feel part of and proud of the Defence community.

In addition, there are a vast range of parent or hobby groups, information sessions and events which may benefit Defence parents.

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